HER Lesbian, bi & queer dating

Contains adsIn-app purchases
2.0
48.7K reviews
1M+
Downloads
Content rating
Rated for 18+
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About this app

HER LGBTQ+ Dating and Community

Meet & chat with queer women, trans, nonbinary, and gender non-conforming people

šŸ³ļøā€šŸŒˆ Join 13 million+ queer women, lesbian, bi, nonbinary, trans, and gender nonconforming folks on HER - the world's most loved LGBTQ+ dating & community app. Your people are here. šŸ³ļøā€šŸŒˆ

HER is built by queers for queers. We're proud to provide a safe dating and chat space for the LGBTQIA2S+ community to form meaningful relationships, connect and hang out.

Download HER and let us welcome you to a supportive and inclusive place filled with people like you.

All of our core features are completely free.
ā¤ļø Safe Queer Dating – match and chat with people from your neighborhood and all over the world.
šŸ¤ Community – hang out with others who have similar values, interests, or hobbies by joining as many of our 30+ communities as you'd like!
šŸ•¶ļø Stand Out – add pronouns, pride pins, gender & sexual identities, fun facts, Spotify go-to's, and more to your profile. Be authentically you.

Unlock more features with premium!
🤫 Incognito mode – no one can see you unless you like them first
🧐 Additional search filters – find exactly who you're looking for.
šŸ‘‹ Online now – send a real-time hello to someone online!
🚫 Ad-free experience – we won't interrupt your groove.

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See you around!
@hersocialapp
https://www.weareher.com


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Updated on
5 Jun 2025

Data safety

Safety starts with understanding how developers collect and share your data. Data privacy and security practices may vary based on your use, region and age. The developer provided this information and may update it over time.
This app may share these data types with third parties
Personal info, Financial info and 2 others
This app may collect these data types
Location, Personal info and 6 others
Data is encrypted in transit
You can request that data be deleted

Ratings and reviews

1.9
48K reviews
Anna Supes Ramm
27 May 2025
Pretty basic dating app interface, though I do like that it's geared exclusively toward sapphic folks. One downside is that the bio text limit is pretty short. Also, some features like communities are not very intuitive... and there doesn't seem to be any content monitoring to make sure people don't spam communities with off-topic posts. The breakout feature WOULD have been the friend request option -- BUT I CAN'T GET IT TO WORK. It doesn't appear for me at all. What do I do???
3 people found this review helpful
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HER App
27 May 2025
Thanks for sharing your honest feedback. We totally understand that removing Friend Requests can feel like a big change, especially if it’s been a go-to way for you to connect. Your feedback means a lot to us, and we’ll definitely pass it along to the team as we keep working to make HER the best it can be.
Emily Bunting
20 April 2025
I wanted to love this app. it has a lot of features outside of just dating. my issue is that the app swipes right when I dont want it to. I keep getting unwanted matches. If they could fix that feature, it would be my favorite lesbian dating app out of the ones I've tried. I just can't swipe without fearing that the app will make it go the wrong way. Edit: I have updated the app. It doesn't mis-swipe as much but it doesn't shuffle. I feel like I see the same people in the same order.
19 people found this review helpful
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HER App
17 April 2025
Thanks for sharing your honest feedback, Emily. Please try uninstalling and reinstalling the app to ensure that you have the updated version of HER. If you are still facing the same issue, please send us a message at support@weareher.com. We are happy to resolve this for you.
Kit Van Tassell
3 February 2025
The idea of getting into a dating app was honestly a bit distressing for me, but this one has turned out to be really good! I feel comfortable and don't dread opening messages or making matches like I do on other apps. People on here seem to care about what you are looking for, even if it's "just" friends, and I haven't encountered anyone creepy. I definitely recommend it!
190 people found this review helpful
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HER App
4 February 2025
This fills our queer hearts with joy and feels. Thanks for the feedback, Kit!🌈

What's new

To improve your experience, we update the app regularly. This update contains both performance enhancements and new features!