HER Lesbian, bi & queer dating

Contains adsIn-app purchases
2.0
48.7K reviews
1M+
Downloads
Content rating
Rated for 18+
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About this app

HER LGBTQ+ Dating and Community

Meet & chat with queer women, trans, nonbinary, and gender non-conforming people

🏳️‍🌈 Join 13 million+ queer women, lesbian, bi, nonbinary, trans, and gender nonconforming folks on HER - the world's most loved LGBTQ+ dating & community app. Your people are here. 🏳️‍🌈

HER is built by queers for queers. We're proud to provide a safe dating and chat space for the LGBTQIA2S+ community to form meaningful relationships, connect and hang out.

Download HER and let us welcome you to a supportive and inclusive place filled with people like you.

All of our core features are completely free.
❤️ Safe Queer Dating – match and chat with people from your neighborhood and all over the world.
🤝 Community – hang out with others who have similar values, interests, or hobbies by joining as many of our 30+ communities as you'd like!
🕶️ Stand Out – add pronouns, pride pins, gender & sexual identities, fun facts, Spotify go-to's, and more to your profile. Be authentically you.

Unlock more features with premium!
🤫 Incognito mode – no one can see you unless you like them first
🧐 Additional search filters – find exactly who you're looking for.
👋 Online now – send a real-time hello to someone online!
🚫 Ad-free experience – we won't interrupt your groove.

❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
See you around!
@hersocialapp
https://www.weareher.com


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http://weareher.com/privacy
Updated on
5 Jun 2025

Data safety

Safety starts with understanding how developers collect and share your data. Data privacy and security practices may vary based on your use, region and age. The developer provided this information and may update it over time.
This app may share these data types with third parties
Personal info, Financial info and 2 others
This app may collect these data types
Location, Personal info and 6 others
Data is encrypted in transit
You can request that data be deleted

Ratings and reviews

1.9
48K reviews
Emily Bunting
20 April 2025
I wanted to love this app. it has a lot of features outside of just dating. my issue is that the app swipes right when I dont want it to. I keep getting unwanted matches. If they could fix that feature, it would be my favorite lesbian dating app out of the ones I've tried. I just can't swipe without fearing that the app will make it go the wrong way. Edit: I have updated the app. It doesn't mis-swipe as much but it doesn't shuffle. I feel like I see the same people in the same order.
19 people found this review helpful
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HER App
17 April 2025
Thanks for sharing your honest feedback, Emily. Please try uninstalling and reinstalling the app to ensure that you have the updated version of HER. If you are still facing the same issue, please send us a message at support@weareher.com. We are happy to resolve this for you.
Kit Van Tassell
3 February 2025
The idea of getting into a dating app was honestly a bit distressing for me, but this one has turned out to be really good! I feel comfortable and don't dread opening messages or making matches like I do on other apps. People on here seem to care about what you are looking for, even if it's "just" friends, and I haven't encountered anyone creepy. I definitely recommend it!
189 people found this review helpful
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HER App
4 February 2025
This fills our queer hearts with joy and feels. Thanks for the feedback, Kit!🌈
Judith Lam
5 February 2025
Don't Pay for Membership! Not worth it! Thieves! Policy said that if you upgrade from Gold to Platinum, you would get a refund of the difference - didn't happen. Told me to contact Google - no help there either. Don't trust anything this app states as they don't back their policies. Also, 80% of the profiles are fakes or scammers so there's no real validation of users. The paid features aren't even worth the price, it's so limited as what you can do. Replies to reviews are just for show. Sucks!
53 people found this review helpful
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HER App
4 February 2025
We're so sorry to hear you didn't get your refund back from Google. Please reach out to us with details at support@weareher.com so we can help. Talk soon!

What's new

To improve your experience, we update the app regularly. This update contains both performance enhancements and new features!